Saturday, June 12, 2010

where there is smoke..

there is fire?

sorry i didnt postet earlier again but this week just has flown by..somuch to do...as well the fact that i m away for the weekend and..gah!

so..i might have to appologize for my last post...i recived an email (the sender told me not to tell his or her name or show the email in my blog*) with the content that the post was insane, horrible and psychotic and that it put a real bad light on myself that i cut off my hair and crie over "religious" feelings and putting pics of my hairymess up on my blog...and that the person as well will never read my blog again and regrets that he or she followed me home from another blog...

so..if i have offened anyone with my last post i will say sorry for that..well sorry for offending anyone..not for what i wrote or what pics i posted because after all..its my blog yes?...and its not as i force anyone to read it...

and that post isnt(when you ask me) psychotic..its not as the world is going down..i just feel weak and...a bit stucked lately..and i question my believs...beeing sick for so long has slowwed me down a lot..and now i need to rebuild my strength.and i also need a sign..for my growing back life...

so..if anyone aside that person felt offendet..i m sorry for that...

well..for those who comnted so lovely and also wrote really kind emails: thank you a lot...because..it means a lot to me....

back with more news soon...:-)

*which is totally silly since the email didnt hold any name i knew so i actually dont even know which blogger has sent this...and honestoly..i dont care

20 comments:

Marina said...

D - you're not any more psychotic than the rest of us! I thought that previous post was very poignant and honest - beautiful.

Perhaps the person who emailed you has his/her own issues to work through, and your writing touched a nerve with them. Not everything we write or read is "easy" but that doesn't make it any less valid or important. Writers are entitled to write what they write. For most writers, when we are struggling with something, we just have to write about it. Readers do, however, have a choice and are hardly in a position to be offended by something they are choosing to read voluntarily. Just stop reading! Shut your eyes! Click to another page!

I'm glad if that person won't be bringing their negative energy to your beautiful blog anymore!

Relax, take care of yourself, be well!

Jo said...

It wasn't me!!!! It wasn't that bad! I guess the risk of personal blogging is that you get personal reactions and you open yourself up to being misunderstood and misrepresented and ... meh.

Just don't cut anything else off and blog about it, ok? ;)

Erobintica said...

Ah, Danielle. I agree with Marina. You probably touched a nerve and they reacted and blamed you for their reaction. So, no need for apologies. Your post was honest, and not everyone is comfortable that. And yeah, sometimes it's hard to be "comfortable" with honesty, in fact sometimes it's damn uncomfortable. But that's as it should be.

Keep at it Danielle. Hugs.

Jo said...

Hummm, no. That angry sickened reader needs to read again, and not just see tears blood and hair. I did that a little bit too, but for different reasons, maybe.

You have to read Danielle more than once, you know.

Craig Sorensen said...

If that person truly finds that particular post offensive (which I truly didn't, BTW) I would say you're better off without them.

Hopefully, they'll find what they're looking for, and you can keep doing what you're doing.

Mwa said...

Don't be sorry! People who will lurk on the internet and choose to be offended are a strange breed anyway.

Jo said...

Good point, Mwa.

On being offended:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAGJpISVERg

Ms. Moon said...

You know, when I write and take pictures for my blog, I DO think about people I know who read me. I will think that this person will like this paragraph or that person will like that picture or this person will HATE this picture because there are spiders in it, or whatever, but the bottom line is- we have to write from our own hearts for our own selves. We are a sensitive bunch and we don't want to offend, most of us, but I like Ms. Sarcastic Bastard's attitude which is that if people are offended- fuck 'em! Let them go read a Christian or Republican blog.
We sometimes have to deal with pain in our words and that's just the way it is.
Love you, Danielle. You know I do.

Janine Ashbless said...

Jeez. You open up about your aching loss of heart and direction, and somebody decides that they're going to dump on you? Because - in all your vulnerability and pain - that's what you really need, is it?

Yes, I know: they weren't thinking about you but about themselves. Well, your anonymous e-mailer is a narcissist and a self-centered jerk. Ignore them. It's your blog, like you said. You have a right to talk about what you really feel. And as a writer, you have a responsibilty to tell the truth in your own words.

You're a rare and wonderful person, Danielle, so please appreciate yourself. Don't listen to the negative!

Petit fleur said...

Dearest,

There are a lot of nuts in the world, and the world is a rather large place... contrary to evidence of the opposite.

I'm sorry that one of them was nasty to you. I thought that post was very honest and touching. We all go through that kind of thing.

Hope you have a great time travelling.
xo pf

Pauline D'Or said...

und zu den schuhe: lang lebe der 38er Frauenschuh! ;)

Danielle said...

thank you marina..maybe you are right and the perosn has her or his own issues...

Danielle said...

jo..what do you fear i might cut off? no..dont tell me:-ö)

Danielle said...

@ robin

yes..sometimes its indeed difficult but..what can i be other then me?

Danielle said...

@ craig

thank you:-)

Danielle said...

@ mea

yes..dont they do it all the time?

Danielle said...

ms moon..as always..so right..they really should go and read other "better" blogs and spread their word there:-)

Danielle said...

janine..thank you thank you thank you for that wonderfull and encouraging coment..:-) that makes up/covers up? a dozent mean emails ...:-)

Danielle said...

thank you @ petit fleur

i m used to bad emails for my work all the time..but this "nut" just was extra weird and i really couldnt understand why my post was such a horrible thing to the person...

Danielle said...

@ pauline

38??? kein wunder das die zwei jahre gehalten haben...45/46 auf dieser seite des screens:-)